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Long time no post.... (More on the Girls Guide to Getting REAL tour... and Brad Pitt

GettingrelFirst things first!

Wanted to let everyone know that I'm teaming up with Courtney Macavinta again for another round of Girls Guide to Getting REAL tour dates!

We'll be in San Diego and Los Angeles in March, and New England in April....and there's still time to book us!  So if you're in one of those areas and are interested in having us come to your school, college/university, youth group, library etc... email me here!

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and next, just a little something I found really interesting, in a sad kinda way:
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Apparently even the sexiest man alive gets airbrushed/photoshopped/electronically made over these days when appearing in print.

Not that I hang with Brad regularly, but that ad (some new Japanese jeans ad) on the left makes him look a whole lot thinner then he normally appears in paparazzi photos etc.

Which is just dumb.  Cause is there anyone who sits around thinking "Brad would be a lot cuter if his waist were just a tad thinner..."

January 22, 2008 in Book News, yo!, Think About This | Permalink | Comments (3)

The Girl's Guide to Getting REAL Tour starts next week!

GetrealThat's right!

Courtney Macavinta, author of Respect: A Girl's Guide to Getting Respect and Dealing When Your Line in Crossed... and me! author of All Made Up: A Girl's Guide to Seeing Through Celebrity Hype and Celebrating Real Beauty will be on tour together all next week in the Bay Area.

All the info is on our new social networking site. 

Come check us out online and in person!

xo Audrey

October 26, 2007 in Book News, yo! | Permalink | Comments (1)

The Girl's Guide to Getting REAL Tour is about to hit the road!

GetrealThat's right!

Courtney Macavinta and I are about to take California by storm! 

From Oct 29-Nov 3rd, we'll be in the Bay Area talking to girls, parents, teachers and EVERYONE about what it means to get real and how to do it.

Want to see us?  Then come on out to the Menlo Park Public Library on Friday November 2 at 7pm! We'll be doing a parent/daughter event...nay, extravaganza...and we want to see you there!  We'll also be autographing books and chatting with girls....so please come say hi!

I also want to invite all DBTH readers and any teens/young women you know to join the new Get REAL community Courtney and I have launched in support of our tour.  It's just gone live, and since we're not on the road yet, you'll be among the first to see it and sign up.  Swing on by to http://guidetogettingreal.ning.com/ and please help spread the word!

October 09, 2007 in Book News, yo! | Permalink | Comments (1)

MOMFERENCE: Really cool Teleconference Extraordinnaire

Momference Hit it!

So, first 'real' post of the new school year and all that jazz.....  And what I want to tell you about is an AMAZING teleconference--nay,  global teleSUMMIT!-- that I'm participating in in early October called the MOMFERENCE. 

It's a meeting of the Moms.... it's out to educate moms and women on topics like raising children with high self-esteem...about creating a work/family/personal time (which I no longer have any of) balance etc....

There are TONS of expert speakers, individual telepresentations, panels focusing in on specific topics and more.

It's all happening from Oct 1st-6th.... and I'll be participating in the following:

Topic: PANEL DISCUSSION: Spotlight On… Raising Self-Empowered Children
Day and Time: October 3, 4:00-5:00pm (EST) / 1:00-2:00pm (PST)
Topic: DON'T BELIEVE THE HYPE - IT'S ALL MADE UP! A Mom's Guide to Seeing Through Celebrity Hype and Helping Their Daughter Celebrate Real Beauty
Day and Time: October 6, 11:00-12:00pm (EST) / 8:00-9:00am (PST)

To  listen in, you gotta register!  So if you're a mom... or know a mom,  zoom over to Momference.com for information about the event and how to register!  Then sign up for my sessions, and email me questions live!

So cool, no?

September 10, 2007 in Book News, yo!, But on the Bright Side, Think About This | Permalink | Comments (0)

Howdy!

Back What up, peeps?!

It's been waay too long since I've posted on DBTH... but I want to let you know that's about to change! 

Starting this fall, I'll be working part time, posting regularly, AND heading back out on the road for some dates in support of All Made Up: A Girl's Guide to Seeing Through Celebrity Hype and Celebrating Real Beauty . 

So stay tuned for news about the Girl's Guide to Getting REAL Tour that I'll be doing with Courtney Macavinta, author of Respect: A Girl's Guide to Getting Respect and Dealing When Your Line is Crossed. Plus other things I'll be participating in like MOMFERENCE! and the West Coast Women's Show.....

Talk to you soon! 

August 21, 2007 in Book News, yo! | Permalink | Comments (1)

Nope... I haven't abandoned this blog...

Ollie I just had a baby last week... that's all.

A boy!  Yet unamed, but already being schooled on what's important when it comes to girl culture, feminism etc.  He's going to ROCK.

I'm going to take a short maternity leave from DBTH... but who knows, you might find some new posts that appear late at night as I figure out what to do with a screaming kid.

Read the archives!

Email me tips!

Sign up for my newsletter at AllMadeup.net... and when I'm totally back on track in a few weeks, I'll send out a big blast!

Stay well in the meantime...

xo Audrey

February 13, 2007 in Book News, yo! | Permalink | Comments (15)

Big news coming soon....

Gettingrel

About Audrey.

On tour.

Next fall...

With another totally kick-ass author....

oooh la la.

More news here and on AllMadeUp.net soon!

January 31, 2007 in Book News, yo! | Permalink | Comments (0)

All Made Up and Audrey in the Boulder, Colorado newspaper

BoulderWhat can I say?  I get around.

The article is from the Daily Camera and is called "In the Mirror: Teens Struggle with Body Image." It appeared earlier this week--and included these smart bits from me:

Celebrating real beauty

As a teenager, Audrey Brashich got caught up in society's definition of beauty. She was a teen model, landing gigs with magazines such as YM, Seventeen, Elle Girl, Cosmo Girl, Lucky and Self.

Brashich also was elected to her New York high school's student government, one of the first girls chosen since the school's founding in 1709, she says.

No one seemed to care about that.

"I was in a bunch of magazines, and a lot of people were asking me about that," she says. "Why is that so much more important than something else that took a lot of intelligence to achieve?"

Brashich, who now lives in Canada, says society's messages to girls perplexed her. So she decided to do some research.

Brashich published a book in May, "A Girl's Guide to Seeing Through Celebrity Hype and Celebrating Real Beauty," a body image and media literacy guide for teens. She says some girls don't realize there is more to life than feeling "pretty."

"The girls I've spoken to are torn. They want to fit in to what is beautiful, but be valued for other things they know are important and are told are important," she says.

She urges parents and teachers to talk to their children about what they see in the media — "raise questions and get kids thinking about what they see," she says.

"If you ask kids what's important in a role model, they'll make a mini list, or if you ask them what professions are the most important in the world, they'll probably say doctors and teachers," Brashich says. "Then ask them to name famous doctors and teachers, and they'll have a harder time. It shows them that we know these things are important, yet we don't see them in the media. Let's find them."


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Cool hunh?  And the rest of the article is worth checking out too!

January 31, 2007 in Book News, yo! | Permalink | Comments (0)

Audrey, All Made Up and Booksmart

Justina2Justina Chen Headley, a fellow Young Adult author (check out her book Nothing But the Truth [and a few white lies]) , colleague of mine, and all around cool girl has started a really great blog for authors and aspiring writers.  It's called BookSmart, and it aims to help writers market their books, get the word out etc.

It's totally worth checking out if you dream of writing a book some day and wonder jussst how you're going to make it to the New York Times Bestseller List (um, if you find out how, you owe me an email), or if you wonder what the book business is about.  Lively posts, funny comments, and yeah, a mini interview with me today about how I've gone about making sure as many people as possible know about All Made Up: A Girl's Guide to Seeing Through Celebrity Hype and Celebrating Real Beauty.

Justina3 Justina also has a new book coming out this year called Girl Overboard--so if you're looking for inspiring gifts to give a teen girl... something with positive role models that's also cool (and a GREAT alternative to the whole Gossip Girl, A List phenom) then you should most definitely check out her work.  You will not be disappointed.

Oh yeaaaah, and Justina and I were both featured in the cool Girls Inc interview last spring when our books first hit the shelves.  So there's more dirt HERE!

January 24, 2007 in Book News, yo! | Permalink | Comments (0)

America Ferrera talks real beauty (and so does Audrey! In the Chicago Sun Times)

Bettyuglyamericaferrera6From her acceptance speech at the Golden Globes:

"Thank you to the foreign press for recognizing this show and this character who is truly bringing a new face to television... and such a beautiful, beautiful message about beauty that lies deeper than what we can see.  It's such an honor to play a role that I hear from young girls on a daily basis how it makes them feel worthy and lovable and that they have more to offer the world than they thought.  It's such an honor to play this role...."

This speech makes me cry.

It makes me think of all the emails and letters I opened as an editor at teen magazines (or that I still get thru my site and blog) from girls who so desperately want to be like what they see in the media.  They want the same affirmation and attention for themselves... and who can blame them given the images, icons and beauty standards that dominate our pop culture.  I truly hope that America and her character Betty continue to make such a positive impact.

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Yep.. that's what I think... and I said so today in an article titled "Breaking the mold: Winning actresses Ferrera, Hudson give beauty a new face" in today's Chicago Sun Times.

This is my bit, but I totally recommend checking out the article in full:

...That's the message touted by 35-year-old Audrey Brashich, media awareness activist and author of All Made Up: A Girl's Guide to Seeing Through Celebrity Hype ... and Celebrating Real Beauty (Walker & Company, $9.95). This former teen model is encouraged that Hudson and Ferrera are being celebrated, but "what I'm waiting to see is whether in Jennifer Hudson's real life or the 'Ugly Betty' character there ends up being pressures on them to conform [to mainstream standards] or for the character to buy in a bit more."

When Brashich leads middle and junior high school seminars, she makes girls aware that advertisers, marketers and media have a financial stake in their constant unhappiness with their bodies.

"I try to reinforce the way they are today is real beauty," says Brashich, who lives in New York and Vancouver, B.C. "It's the standards we need to work on changing and altering and fixing."

Pretty cool, hunh?

 

January 18, 2007 in Book News, yo!, Real Role Models, Startling Stats and Quotes | Permalink | Comments (0)

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